What will happen if I make the wrong choice and get trapped in a lifestyle that really isn't for me?.At what point in their lives do people know what their sexual preference is?.How do I know whether I prefer women or men?.How will I ever be able to tell for certain?.How can I tell if I'm really gay or straight?.Do I look or act gay or straight to you?.Questions You May Be Asking Yourself to Determine if You are Gay Some people know exactly who they are attracted to, but others may experiment with sexual experiences, including those with members of the same sex, during the years they are exploring their sexuality. As you grow up, it is normal to think sexually about both the same sex and the opposite sex. This is a question that's often asked by young people, now there is much more openness and honesty about discussing male homosexuality and lesbianism. The American Psychological Association defines sexual orientation as an 'enduring emotional, romantic, sexual, or affectionate' attraction toward another person. Summary: Information and test questions for adults and adolescents questioning if they may be gay, lesbian or bisexual. Published: Thursday 22nd October 2015 - Updated: Friday 13th May 2022 HOME Sexuality LGBT Adolescents Am I Gay? Questions to Ask Yourself